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She’s a much better writer than we have on the guy’s side of things!

– They were too far along in investment and illusions to have their feet in reality enough to be working out whether this person was someone that they actually should be with.You need more than physical and sexual attraction – you should be getting an initial sense of their values and whether they treat you with care, trust and respect, and of course match words with actions.If you’re not getting to know them or you are, and are experiencing things that are at the very least proceed with caution signals or at their worst, full on abort mission signals, this is because you’ve already decided to commit, regardless.These women have been emotionally abused, disappointed, betrayed and they are just so hard-wired to not get hurt again. By setting unattainable standards (fantasy man) they ensure they will never again let somebody close enough to them to hurt them again.But then, I only took one psych course in college……I like to keep things simple.